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STOp SAYING THAT!
5 LEADERSHIP PHRASES THAT LOSE YOU TRUST Leadership is language. Every word you use tells your team something about what you value, how...

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Aug 263 min read


T-BOZ: THE IDEAL MODERN MANAGER OF MULTIGENERATIONAL TEAMS
Sandwiched between ‘Crazy’ and ‘Sexy’, TLC’s ‘Cool’ persona, T-Boz, was often seen as the glue that held the group together. As...

hendrixtoycoaching
Jul 162 min read


THE LIGHT OF THE SUN: WHAT JILL SCOTT'S THIRD ALBUM TAUGHT US ABOUT MIDLIFE CLARITY
When The Light of the Sun dropped in 2011, it didn’t dominate the charts or headlines like Jill Scott’s earlier work. Critics called it...

hendrixtoycoaching
Jul 142 min read


Your Team Isn't Your Family, But Your Workplace Might Feel Like A Family Reunion
We've all heard it before: "We're like family here." It's the rallying cry of teams everywhere, usually delivered with the best of...

hendrixtoycoaching
Jun 102 min read


7 Leadership Lessons From the Small-Market NBA Finals: What the New Era of Teams Looks Like
The 2025 NBA Finals don’t feature a “superteam”. No major-market dynasty. No sideline antics. Instead, we’ve got two small-market squads...

hendrixtoycoaching
Jun 82 min read


Coaching with pride: why passive leadership doesn't work in 2025
What was once silenced is now celebrated. But for many coaches, Pride still feels complicated—especially in locker rooms, on sidelines,...

hendrixtoycoaching
Jun 32 min read


Get Tougher How?: Why generational views on mental health matter
In locker rooms, film sessions, and coaches’ meetings, we’ve all heard it: “They need to toughen up.” “Back in my day, we just pushed...

hendrixtoycoaching
May 283 min read


"Coach, you good?": the quiet toll of leadership
It was a question I was often asked. I usually answered half-heartedly because the reality didn't seem as important as the work that...

hendrixtoycoaching
May 253 min read


Coachella Didn't Dance, But Missy Still Got Her Freak On
— A Salute to Black Women Who Lead Missy Elliott: The Living Legend. The Visionary. The Icon. As a proud Missy fangirl (I chose to go to...

hendrixtoycoaching
May 42 min read


Season's Over, Now What? : Re-imagining post-season development
Season has ended. Wins and losses are no longer being tallied. Players are tired, their eyes are on summer. Rosters are shifting or being...

hendrixtoycoaching
May 42 min read


Cliches Give Me "the Ick": How to Avoid Cliches in Coaching
Ohio State beats Notre Dame to win the College Football National Championship! As a former athlete and coach, I undoubtedly appreciate...

hendrixtoycoaching
May 22 min read


LIVING SINGLE: THE IMPORTANCE OF BLACK WOMEN FRIENDSHIPS
Every Thursday night, my sister and I huddled in front of the TV to laugh, banter, and dream with Khadijah, Max, Regine and Synclaire. ...

hendrixtoycoaching
Apr 72 min read


The Transfer Portal: Gen Z's Default Setting
The transfer portal has become one of the hottest topics in college sports, reshaping the landscape like never before. With more...

hendrixtoycoaching
Apr 34 min read


What Maryland's Derik Queen Taught Us About Gen Z Athletes
Derik Queen's recent buzzer-beater, propelling the Maryland Terrapins into the Sweet 16, serves as a prime example of how Gen Z athletes...

hendrixtoycoaching
Mar 262 min read


You May Not Be a Good Listener: Key Elements of Active Listening
Are you aware that people sometimes stop mid-conversation or choose not to engage with you at all? Do you have people in your circle you...

hendrixtoycoaching
Mar 42 min read


March madness: Master End of Game Situations
As we prepare for March Madness, I can’t help but to envision players, coaches and fans sitting in front of televisions across the...

hendrixtoycoaching
Mar 32 min read


Be Like Tortoise: How to Keep Rhythm in Your life
Taking it back to the old school ‘cause I’m an old fool that hopes of you have a “Whoomp! (there it is)” moment by the end of this. Let’s...

hendrixtoycoaching
Feb 202 min read


Emotional Regulation Toolkit
You’re STILL throwing temper tantrums? Aren’t you tired? Unregulated emotions and impulsive reactions lead to declining physical health,...

hendrixtoycoaching
Feb 182 min read


Militant Self-Care Sounds So...Militant: How to Practice Militant Self-Care
It is. Imagine if all black women said “No” to fifty percent or more of the tasks they were expected to perform daily. Imagine black...

hendrixtoycoaching
Feb 153 min read


Mid to Late Season Adjustments: 5 women's basketball tournament tips for coaches
This article focuses on 5 areas to help maximize your time and talent to best prepare for a reputable tournament run. 1. Prioritize...

hendrixtoycoaching
Feb 112 min read
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